Recipe+for+Respect

=A recipe for respect...= Ava listens quitely when her teacher talks. Ben claps for each performer at his piano recital. These childern show respect for others. Here's how you can encourage your youngster to do the same.

Demonstrate
Your child will learn respectful behavior by watching the way you treat others. When she makes a mistake, for instance, gently tell her what she's done wrong--and out of earshot of others. Also, let her see you respect ideas and beliefs that are different from your own. For example, point out that you're happy a friend is voting in an election even though you each favor a different candidate.

Notice
When you see your youngster acting respectfully, let her know that you've noticed ("I like the way you asked your sister before borrowing her sweater"). Your words and attention will encourage her to show respect in the future.

//Tip: If you see disrespectful behavior on TV (a child rolling his eyes or talking back to a parent), tell your youngster that isn't okay in real life. Then, ask her to be on the lookout for repectful actions and characters. How many can she spot before the program ends.// //From: Home&School CONNECTION: Working Together for School Success//